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WHY I RATHER WATCH THE TURKEY THAN THE NBA ON CHRISTMAS DAY

Every year we mark certain months in the year and mark them with a particular sport. October is the big month for baseball fans.  Football is pretty big all through the season but February is the big month for them.  So what is the big month for basketball.  Well June of course is the finals and there is the all star break…but make no mistake Christmas Day is the biggest Day in basketball.

Christmas is the great day you get to wake up late probably due to staying up late.  If your lucky enough open your gift or gifts and then wait for food.  You eat and drink until you don’t feel like eating anymore in life and then again you WAIT.  Although it is the height of the NFL season this is the day for the NBA.

The NBA has capitilized on this over the years and before the season they select the most popular teams…the big markets and they match a few of them up against each other.  Despite your record, your popularity will get you in these Christmas games.  Some teams don’t mind missing out on this game because it means they can spend time with their family.

Now to the REAL point of this article.  In short the games on Christmas Day Sucks.  Now if you notice I specified DAY.  In the night games Spurs play Rockets and Clippers play Warriors.  Those two games feature pretty good teams.  The problem with those games are there is no STAR POWER for the casual fan.  Me being a big NBA fan know james harden, manu ginobli, steph curry, CP3 but some of the casual fans don’t.

The first game is the Bulls and the Nets.  At the start of the season this seemed like a dream matchup. Now however…. the Nets are playing horribly despite all the money spent in the offseason.  Despite their star power it can’t make up for their bad play.  Derrick Rose is out for the year yet again and we are left to watch KG vs Noah.

Game two is OKC vs Knicks.  well the Knicks like the nets are playing very bad.  what is worst for the Knicks is Melo might be out for this game.  This is horrible because despite the fact in most minds OKC would destroy the knicks… the one matchup we would have locked foward to was KD one on one vs melo and even that might not happen.

The 3rd game and probably the most disapointing.  The heat vs the lakers.  The lakers were not any favorites to win a championship this year but with Kobe Bryant they were expected to be good.  The downside now is that Kobe is out again and although Kobe a SG and Lebron a SF don’t play the same position, the hype on the promos would have been Kobe and Lebron.  Despite his talent no casual fan wants to see Nick Young or a Chris kaman.  No 1 besides Heat fans want to see a game that is not competitive and these games seem to be this way.

it is because of these facts that on Christmas Day I am thinking watching the turkey would be more fun that watching the NBA.  But at the end of it all i have to laugh and say I am a fan so I probabaly will still watch LOL

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Posted by on December 27, 2013 in BLOG POSTS, SPORTS POSTS

 

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WHY NO MAN WANTS A FEMALE FRIEND?

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First off I know what you are saying and its a generalization, it is but in all honestly MOST men do not want a female friend.  The fact is MOST females want a male friend.  Women feel that male friends are not the same drama as female friends and feel somewhat safer telling them their secrets.  Women also want someone to give them a male opinion on a situation and help them when they are going through things.

Of course reading this you may say “well I know alot of females who have male friends” and you are right but the fact is that male was probably never looking for a female friend.  A friend simply defined as someone you like to be with and helps support a next person.  So there are some men and women who are acquaintances but if they are in jail 1oclock in the morning they can’t call that person to bail them out.

So if you really have a male friend I can tell how 90% of you met. You either went to high school, college or worked together at some time.  Hardly ever a man meets a woman in the club and ends up being her friend.  In most cases these men who are your friend originally wanted you in a relationship but settled as a friend.

The first reason males don’t want a female friend is because alot of youll to put it loosely are COCK BLOCKERS.  I say that because you are out with your male friend and all over him.  Other females that maybe interested in him see you’ll and think THATS HIS GIRL.  And even if he goes to try approach a girl she would be thinking bad of him because she thinks you are a couple.  Women are actually jealous when it comes to their male friend.  If one of their female friends ask them to hook up her and your male friend you would usually say “naw girl you ain’t his type”, the same thing you would tell that male friend if he asks about one of them.  Women do this out of fear that if your male friend and female friend get together you are going to lose a male friend, so its really out of selfishness.

Reason 2 is because in all honesty alot of times that male friend wants you and you know it. However you torture him by keeping him close to you knowing his feelings and knowing you have no interest in him.

Reason 3 is that alot of times the friendship will be kind of one sided.  A woman wants that male friend to complain to about her bf, she wants to get that good advice.  If that male friend comes to her for relationship help alot of times she doesn’t want to give him any of the SECRETS TO WOMEN. She usually is not there for him like he is there for her.  A woman friends always needs favors whether it is burrowing money, a ride, help moving something but in alot of cases cannot offer these favors in return.

Reason 4 why a man doesn’t want a female friend is because you are NOT A MAN.  He can’t hang with you and talk raw like he does around the boys.  He can’t watch the football or basketball game with you, he can’t go out and get drunk with you.

I will admit there are a few very good female friends out there who do not act this way and can hang out just like one of the boys.  Make no mistake though ladies if you have a male friend realize that in most cases his intention was never to become friends.  If you ever watched the show the Office with jim and pam you would see jim was only keeping her close so he could get into her panties.  So ladies for the new year try and be a better female friend to the males that befriend you and if you feel like it GIVE HIM SOME LOL!

 
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Posted by on December 25, 2013 in BLOG POSTS, RELATIONSHIP POSTS

 

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A WOMAN’S GUIDE TO FINDING A GOOD MAN

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The typical cry from alot of women is “Where are all the good men?” and that question can be answered in many ways depending on what you call a good man.  One of the biggest problem in women finding a good man is that they want too much from one man.  There is a popular picture of a skeleton looking out a window with the caption; waiting on the perfect man.  It is funny but in some cases true.

The first thing a woman needs to do to find a good man is not finding out what she needs but what she doesn’t need.  You may go to the food store and have $100 and the bill comes to $120.  Your only option is to put back some stuff and you decide this by the things that are less important to you.  Well in relationships a woman has to figure out the qualities that she needs in her man and not just what she wants.

Some women are more superficial and they want the amazing house, beautiful car, expensive trips and clothing. There are alot of independent women out there but if these are things she want from her man she has to accept certain things.  First off her man won’t have that much time to spend with her or a possible family because of the time he is spending making this money.  Her man also has more control over her because he knows she has to stay with him in order for her lifestyle to continue.  This kind of woman will have to accept that this man will have other women also because of his wealth.

There are some women who are more attracted to the physical aspect of a man.  Some like the color of a man, the good hair and good looks.  Other go crazy over the body or what a man can do for them in the bedroom.  Again if the man is very attractive or good in bed there is a good chance she is not the only woman that wants him or has him.  So a woman who needs a man like this has to be able to handle the cheating factor because it comes with the territory.

Security is an important quality to a woman also, so some women have to have a guy she feels safe with.  Often this guy who makes her feel safe has a little bit or alot of bad boy to him.  With the bad boy she runs the risk of being abused both physically and mentally.  The bad boy usually is a cheater too who is extremely jealous.

It has to be noted first off it is true that a good man is hard to find just as a good woman is hard to find.  It is hard to find all of the qualities we seek in one person.  Lyfe Jennings has a song called statistics that basically says only 10% of men are worth being in a relationship with.  The first obstacle in finding a good man is the statistics are against women.  There are more women then men and some men are gay so not every woman can have their OWN MAN.

So step 1 is finding a man who is not married, engaged or in a relationship.  Avant’s song Lie about us said it all when it comes to wanting a man who is married.  They can promise all day but the fact is if they don’t leave their wife in the 1st year you met him it’s a low chance of it happening.  There are easy ways to find out if a man is married or in a relationship.  One of them is he doesn’t want to go out in public with you because he doesn’t want to be caught. He is not available when you want him because he is in a next relationship.  He does not want to take any pics with you because he can’t be seen with you.  He doesn’t introduce you to any of his family of friends.  Once you have found a man who is single it’s time to move on top step 2.

Step 2 is weighing your options.  Find a guy that has more of the qualities you like than those you don’t like.  Everyone has their bad habits but make sure he doesn’t have too many bad and not enough good.  Make sure your guy is really into you.  If you are very pretty, have big breast or a big booty make him work for awhile to get it.  If you see him begin to distance from you because he is not getting it yet then you know he is more into your body.  You have to make sure that you like being around this guy. Yes he may have physical qualities or a very nice guy but if you do not enjoy his company it will never work.

Step 3 is compromise.  Your guy doesn’t have to be the most attractive but you have to be in some way attracted to him for it to work.  Honesty is an important part of any relationship and this quality shouldn’t be compromised.  The character of a man is important. Just because your guy won’t go and beat up a guy because he looked at you hard doesn’t mean you should pass on him.  Some guys will not have that rugged bad boy character but they will treat you good and in the end that is important.  Finance are also important while you don’t have to be with a guy with a million dollars you should find a man that helps take care of you. There is nothing wrong with starting off with a man who is not making much money once that man has a plan for the future that make sense. DO NOT fall for a dreamer who has alot of big plans to be rich but currently only has $5 in the bank.

Step 4 is not to be rushed.  Alot of women marry or are in relationships for the wrong reason.  Their mother or women in their family say you are older now you need to be married.  A woman sees all of her friends getting married and feels jealous and left out.  Some women cannot stand to be alone so they are anxious to get into a relationship.  Now again I am not saying wait for perfect  but wait awhile for GOOD because you do not want to be in a relationship and you are not happy.

Step 5 is not overlooking good men.  Alot of women have that male friend that they absolutely adore but they have FRIEND ZONED HIM. They designate that he can only be friends with her and alot of times they know the guy is attracted to them.  Truth is what would be better than being with a person who is also your best friend.  They often say “Why my BF can’t be good like you” and the truth is he could be.

In closing one of the main downfalls of women when choosing a man is planning to change him. People can change but it was once said we develop our personalities by age 6 so the phrase can’t teach a old dog new tricks is relevant.  The truth is some women are not ready for a relationship should they shouldn’t even be seeking one.  However for those who are I hope this helped.

Signed…A GOOD MAN

 
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Posted by on December 25, 2013 in BLOG POSTS, RELATIONSHIP POSTS

 

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WHY I RATHER WATCH THE TURKEY THAN THE NBA ON CHRISTMAS DAY

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Every year we mark certain months in the year and mark them with a particular sport. October is the big month for baseball fans. Football is pretty big all through the season but February is the big month for them. So what is the big month for basketball. Well June of course is the finals and there is the all star break…but make no mistake Christmas Day is the biggest Day in basketball.

Christmas is the great day you get to wake up late probably due to staying up late. If your lucky enough open your gift or gifts and then wait for food. You eat and drink until you don’t feel like eating anymore in life and then again you WAIT. Although it is the height of the NFL season this is the day for the NBA.

The NBA has capitilized on this over the years and before the season they select the most popular teams…the big markets and they match a few of them up against each other. Despite your record, your popularity will get you in these Christmas games. Some teams don’t mind missing out on this game because it means they can spend time with their family.

Now to the REAL point of this article. In short the games on Christmas Day Sucks. Now if you notice I specified DAY. In the night games Spurs play Rockets and Clippers play Warriors. Those two games feature pretty good teams. The problem with those games are there is no STAR POWER for the casual fan. Me being a big NBA fan know james harden, manu ginobli, steph curry, CP3 but some of the casual fans don’t.

The first game is the Bulls and the Nets. At the start of the season this seemed like a dream matchup. Now however…. the Nets are playing horribly despite all the money spent in the offseason. Despite their star power it can’t make up for their bad play. Derrick Rose is out for the year yet again and we are left to watch KG vs Noah.

Game two is OKC vs Knicks. well the Knicks like the nets are playing very bad. what is worst for the Knicks is Melo might be out for this game. This is horrible because despite the fact in most minds OKC would destroy the knicks… the one matchup we would have locked foward to was KD one on one vs melo and even that might not happen.

The 3rd game and probably the most disapointing. The heat vs the lakers. The lakers were not any favorites to win a championship this year but with Kobe Bryant they were expected to be good. The downside now is that Kobe is out again and although Kobe a SG and Lebron a SF don’t play the same position, the hype on the promos would have been Kobe and Lebron. Despite his talent no casual fan wants to see Nick Young or a Chris kaman. No 1 besides Heat fans want to see a game that is not competitive and these games seem to be this way.

it is because of these facts that on Christmas Day I am thinking watching the turkey would be more fun that watching the NBA. But at the end of it all i have to laugh and say I am a fan so I probabaly will still watch LOL

 
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Posted by on December 24, 2013 in BLOG POSTS

 

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